The 7 Year Itch {bust out the tissue}

{gotcha. this isn’t a divorce post}

Seven years ago, I was a bright-eyed 24 year old fresh from grad school who fell in love, running to city hall in sandals and jeans, eschewing the traditional wedding.

I was against all that Barbie doll crap, it was so rock and roll of us, to sneak off.

Then, I changed my mind and we had the big fat Italian wedding.

My dad at my side, still healthy in his pot-bellied state, walked me down an aisle of dead grass, outside a historic mansion, in downtown Oak Park instead.

It was a steamy July day, me beneath a layer of satin, you beat red, whispered to me, “I love you so much, I married you twice”.

And every time you’ve said that…it doesn’t get old.  Even seven year later.

In seven years,
we’ve changed this handyman-special into a home
said goodbye to my father,

to our grandmothers,
to old careers,
lived high on the hog
and paycheck to paycheck.

We’ve welcome two sons

and a fur child.

Drinks at a bar has turned into a family.

The days bleed into months
and youth turns into middle age,
and dare I say

I’d marry you a third time, just for kicks.

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  1. Kari says:

    That is so lovely, congrats!!

  2. How sweet, congrats to u guys!

  3. Jennifer says:

    That was so sweet. I love to read true love stories. :) Congratulations.

  4. So sweet. You have a wonderful way with telling a story. Congrats.

  5. Heather says:

    What a sweet post!! I love that he says that to you.

    Happy anniversary!

  6. laxsupermom says:

    What a sweet post! Happy Anniversary!

  7. Mindy says:

    Happy Anniversary!

  8. Oh dear lord, you scared me! I thought this was a d-i-v-o-r-c-e post from the title! Give a pregnant lady a heart attack, would ya?

    Congratulations! And “I love you so much, I married you twice” ???? Sigh, that’s just lovely :)

  9. Steph says:

    Happy anniversary Nicolette!!!!! Yes, I did need a tissue.

  10. April says:

    Aw, Happy Anniversary!

  11. Terry says:

    Oh, I hope that he appreciates this as much as it means to me and I don’t even know you. This is amazing and so thoughtful and kind. Sorry to hear about your dad’s passing and what lovely boys you have. You are blessed. Happy anniversary and wishing for many more years ahead.

  12. meijo's JOY says:

    so sweeet …happy 7 sweet years anniversary!

  13. Love your real life pics :) Happy anniversary! My hubs and I were married 7 years ago this July too :) Hope you have a great rest of the week… and a great NEXT 7 years :)

  14. Happy Anniversary! That was so sweet and fun to read!

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